Showing posts with label #divorce #forgiveness #chaptertwo. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #divorce #forgiveness #chaptertwo. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

talking to my "ex"

I've been single for a while now. It was rough at first but good friends and time brought me through it. I can honestly say I'm in a good place, a place, however, that does not include men. Yesterday a rather handsome older gentlemen approached me and struck up a conversation. I smiled, I was pleasant and then I fled. Twenty-four hours later I realized he was flirting... I'm not only rusty, I'm dense! I might need to work on this.

I got a pleasant surprise last night when I spent over an hour talking to my ex-husband on the phone about a family situation  and I managed it without "drama" 

... no anger, no hurt, no thoughts of revenge. (Poor man, for years I've fantasized about a "fiery" crash.) I'm not sure when it happened but I think I'm over "the divorce" 

Its true, forgiveness is as much for me as it is for him and being angry just got too heavy to carry around.  It feels like I lost ten pounds!