Tuesday, April 15, 2014

TAX DAY!

Just paid my accountant a bucket load of money so he could explain to me why the raise I got was cancelled out by the fact that now I pay more taxes. I kept repeating the mantra...

"I nourish the world and the world nourishes me"

At this rate we are going to be on bread and water. Grrrrrrrrrrrrr!

Got to love tax day!




Monday, April 14, 2014

WHY I LIKE KATE... 
 
Will, Kate and little George are in the news this week as they  travel down under. How fun to catch a glimpse of their family.

where to begin...

THE HATS - She makes wearing a hat look truly fashionable. For as long as I can remember we, in the US, have been a little puzzled by the English and their hats. Now suddenly they are brilliant, unpredictable and the perfect element to complete an outfit.
 
Not since Jackie Kennedy has someone worn a hat with such flair.
 

THE LOVE STORY - I think we all felt a twinge of sadness when things didn't work out for Diana and Charles. To see their son appear to be truly and madly in love with a beautiful woman gives me hope that maybe there are still fairy tales that come true.

 


I have watched them pose side by side when everything in the picture screamed... "I wish you would all go away so I could throw my arms around him." And then... she did!



SHE WANTED TO BE A MOTHER - How refreshing! Here she is with George, who definitely has her good looks.
 



SHE'S REAL - She blew everyone away when she appeared with her new son completely unashamed of her "baby bump" 

SHE'S NOT AFRAID TO WEAR IT TWICE- She runs the gamut between inexpensive clothes off the rack to designer gowns (Alexander McQueen is one of her favorites) When she travels she wears clothes made by designers from that country. I think that's thoughtful and good PR.  And then there are those pumps she has worn multiple, multiple times. I bet she owns more than one pair.
 
SHE HAS GREAT TASTE - Never garish or immodest she is a beautiful fashion show that never seems to end.
 




A BEAUTIFUL HOMAGE to the women Will loves...

Sunday, April 13, 2014

 BEAUTIFUL SUNDAY! 

Katherine Jenkins and the Mormon Tabernacle choir
THE PRAYER



The Paso Doble

Saturday, April 12, 2014


TOO PRETTY TO EAT  

I had a cookie decorating business for 12 years. I lived and breathed cookies and cookie cutters. Whenever I see edible works of art, and there are many out there, it brings back some good memories. 

Here is the best sugar cookie recipe I have ever used and the recipe for making your "royal icing" actually taste good!

SUGAR COOKIES
 2 c. butter (no substitutions)
4 egg yolks 
1 1/2 c. sugar
2 tsp. vanilla
4 - 4 1/2 c. flour

Mix dough and chill for at least an hour. Roll out on floured board to 1/4" thickness and cut as desired.  Place on Parchment covered cookie sheet and bake at 350 for approx. 12 minutes.





ROYAL ICING
2 lbs powdered sugar
3 TBS powdered egg whites


Place the dry ingredients in your 
Kitchen Aid and mix.  Slowly add water to thin. To flavor add...
1/4 tsp almond flavoring
1/2 tsp clear vanilla
1/2 tsp butter flavoring

OPTIONS - 1/4  tsp orange extract   
                    1/4 tsp mint extract





Happy Decorating!

Thursday, April 10, 2014


LIFE IS A CIRCLE


Years ago I had a friend whose life seemed perfect... perfect husband, healthy. happy children, a to die for beautiful home and lots of money. At a time when I was struggling to hold things together financially from month to month, her life seemed like a fairytale. 



Actually most of what I saw was perception. Things got considerably more stable for me and she had to give up her home and many of her dreams. It broke my heart for her. Everytime I pass her house I think... "That's L's house, no one else should be living there."  In that moment I realized no one escapes life's struggles.




"It's not what happens to us in this life that matters, its what we decide to do about it."

I watched an amazing movie yesterday, one that I had never heard of but because it had Judith Dench in it I took a chance. It is called PHILOMENA and is the story of an Irish woman who goes in search of the son she was forced to give up for adoption.  She is aided by a rather grumpy and cynical reporter named Martin.

Anthony renamed Michael Hess

The movie, which is based on the real life events of Philomena Lee, is well told. With a couple of twists it gently leads you to a surprise ending. I found much more there than just a story. Its about dealing with the harshness of life and deciding to choose forgiveness and love over anger and bitterness. 







Although Philomena and Martin are at opposite ends of the spectrum they manage to travel this road together. They even bring the journey full circle.

I don't want to give away too many details but I highly recommend it. There's more there than meets the eye. You can watch it on Amazon.


In the the final scene Martin quotes T. S. Elliot


... and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started, and know the place for the first time. 


Wednesday, April 9, 2014


I HAVE ALWAYS LOVED THE RAIN...
who knew there was a name for that


I have always loved the rain. Lying beneath all my quilts at night and listening to it beat against the windows and the roof is one of my favorite things. My youngest daughter once lived in an apartment that had a tin roof. What a wonderful sound that made. 

A friend of mine posted this on facebook... who knew there was a name for people who love the rain

Visiting Seattle for the first time last summer gave me a new perspective on the word pluviophile. It rains a lot there and its cold. I think I'm a occational pluviophile.

  SEATTLE RAIN BY IRIS SCOTT

I had a friend that went shopping everytime it rained. "I'm from the Northwest" she said, "You can't let the rain stop you... just take your umbrella and go!"

She was made of hardy stuff. 

 
Home in the rocky mountains, my favorite rain is in the summer and autumn. Its the best when there's  lightning and thunder thrown in the mix. I can sit on my porch and feel safe and still have a front row seat for all the drama.  























A couple of summers ago I was staying in a cabin outside of Jackson Hole. It had been such a wet Spring that the river was too swollen and treacherous to raft so we spent the day wandering around, shopping, eating and acting like tourists.  At one point everyone went on a stagecoach ride except for me. I stayed with the dog. Sitting in the park it began to lightly sprinkle. Oh the smell and the cool air... it was heavenly.  It wasn't long after everyone had returned that it became a downpour.  It left us sequestered in the car for nearly 20 minutes. It was mother nature at her best!



I love the rain, it clears the air, makes everything fresh and is perfect for kissing, dancing and singing!


"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass... its about learning to dance in the rain."







CHANGE IS IN THE WIND...
I'm just not sure which directions it is blowing

Here is my deepest darkest secret... I LIKE CHANGE. I'm pretty sure its a character flaw.  I do have constants in my life... faith, family, creativity and teaching but within that framework I love to shake it up.  When my children were little they would laugh when people would ask about our Christmas traditions... "Oh we don't have any. My mom likes to do something different every year." The only constant was... WE CELEBRATED CHRISTMAS!


Even though I'm very sentimental about family I wanted to surround us with something new. I think a destination Christmas is a perfect idea.

My mother was a traditionalist and I, being her only daughter, was expected to follow suit. Our Thanksgiving dinners were identical  every year, right down to the parsnips with bacon and the sweet potatoes with brown sugar and mini marshmallow.  Imagine my delight when I discovered you could bake a sweet potato and then drench it in butter with salt and cracked pepper... YUM!

This little "flaw" has followed me all my life.  I have taught 2nd grade, sold skin care, designed t-shirts, taught piano, owned a cookie decorating business and now I work as the children's librarian. Its not that I wasn't successful, I was. Its that after a while, I get bored and I want to move on.



I have asked myself a million times ... "why can't I just pick something and stick with it for 30 years?"  I don't know, I just can't.  Maybe the things I've picked were not authentic with who I really am. I am past mid-life and I have to figure this out.

So, once again I have come to the fork in the road.  I'm bored! I know that change is coming but I have no idea what direction the wind is blowing or how I should set my sails.

Winds from the east... Mist comin' in... Like somethin' was brewin', about to begin...
Bert from Mary Poppins





I just heard about this new books by Marlo Thomas... It Ain't Over till its Over   There are 400 pages of stories by women who have re-invented their lives at a variety of ages. Most were 40 and older.  I bought it from Amazon and I can hardly wait for it to arrive.

Hope this book helps me unlock my future.


Have you re-invented your life? I would love to hear your story or your advise.